Friday, January 3, 2014

Dreams, Struggles, Victories

Life follows a simple plan, a simple layout. Eternity is built on a simple concept, one could even call it a law. The law is this:

The Dream, The Struggle, The Victory

            Every story we know from history and the scriptures, the story of your life, your neighbor’s life, the stories of countries, everything and everyone goes through this process.
            Think about it for you. Eternally, we dream of becoming like our Father in Heaven, we struggle here on Earth to learn, and having succeeded in the struggle we gain a glorious victory. Or a smaller scale, you have a dream of rocking a presentation, so you struggle in preparation motivated by the possibility of a victory, and you are rewarded with an awesome presentation and land the job or position or sale.
            Life is built on this principle of the Dream, the Struggle, the Victory. You can do this by day, you can do it by year, eternity, minutes, by goal, any time based objective or thought is tied to this principle and law.

            The Dream
            The Dream is thought out. It is a thorough combination of thoughts and desires. A Dream is a vision of who you want to be, something you want to attain, your relationship with someone, how you would like life to be. The dream is what keeps you motivated through the Struggle. If the Dream is strong enough, the Struggle is worth the Victory.

            The Struggle
            The Struggle represents the obstacles between you now and the Victory of attaining your Dream. It represents the roadblocks, the stumbles, the pitfalls, the missteps. Anything hard, even to forgetting the Dream and why you started is the Struggle.

            The Victory
            The Victory is the realized Dream. It is the finish, the attainment of that which you set out for. A beautiful family, eternal salvation, baptism, quitting an addiction. The victory is happiness because you have become someone worthy of having the Dream you once dreamed.
            Now, some examples. The children of Israel dream of salvation. They wander in the wilderness for 40 years, and finally obtain the Promised Land.
            Lehi and his family are given a vision of the Promised Land, wander in the desert for 8 years, all while listening to complaining brothers and fending off their threats to kill Lehi and Nephi, brave a terrible storm. And eventually, they too obtain the Promised Land.
            Joseph Smith, we have multiple accounts of his visions and revelations of the glories of God, the promised blessings. He struggled his whole life for the attainment of not only his own salvation but for millions of others to come. His victory is not only his own exaltation but also the possibility through the restored church for each of us to gain the same.
            Jesus Christ, the great Exemplar. Even early in his childhood he knew of His potential as the Son of God. He struggled more than any of us will ever know or comprehend. But through the struggle, the learned who each of us were, so that we might in our struggles turn to Him for help. His victory is the offered salvation for us each, and glory next to the Father.

            Now it is important here, to mention the proportions of each of these levels in your own struggles and those you meet and talk to. A small dream, a small struggle leads to a small victory. A big dream, comes with a big struggle, but results in a big victory. The same with huge, ginormous, etc. The bigger the dream, the bigger the struggle, but also bigger the Victory.
            But now what if we have great Dreams, but want a little Struggle? Then the Victory matches the Struggle, not the Dream. Without the appropriate Struggle, you are not the person worthy of the Victory. See, the Struggle changes who we are, we rely on God, and we walk by faith, we find in ourselves strength, and become worthy of the Victory.
            I taught this many times on my mission, investigators, members, and other missionaries. We each begin this life with a Dream of returning to our Father in Heaven. The Struggles of the world, the fiery darts of the adversary rain upon us. As missionaries we taught each other and others of that memory, and it offered perspective to conquer addictions, overcome a fear of coming to church, even to follow Christ and get baptized.
            Remember the Victory will match the size of the Struggle. And that every thought, every wish, comes with this law: The Dream, the Struggle, the Victory.

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Do what you can...

‘Do what you can, with what you have, where you are.’ –Teddy Roosevelt.
Amazing. Simple. the time is never perfect. But it must be good enough. Tough decisions must be made, and it is not always comfortable or convenient. But you have all your experience, your friends and family support, your God beside you, step forward with faith.
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By Christ we see everything

My sister sent me this quote during my mission and it help focus a lot of what we did in our work.

            “Believing in Christ is like believing in the sun at noonday, no that you can see it, but because of it, you can see everything.”

            It is beautifully put, I for one have never seen Christ, but because of Him, I can see all things. I haven’t yet, don’t get me wrong, but I can with faith and time see all things.
            I started to think about my belief in Christ, where it was before my mission and how this quote changed that feeling for Him. Before my mission I knew there was a Christ, I knew who He was, what He did, to some small extent I understood how His life and actions applied to me.
            It wasn’t until I started to teach others that I realized how little I really understood Christ. I reflected on it today again, how deep is His love for me? For each of us? How painful was the Atonement he suffered for me and for all? The extent of his life, the pain, suffering, no doubt the happiness in triumph is beyond anything I could ever hope to comprehend.
            It was an amazing moment to chase these thoughts as I, so some very very miniscule extent began to feel what Moses did in the Pearl of Great Price, seeing the greatness of God, he realizes that Man is Nothing. I was amazed at how small I was in the creation of God, but at the same time, how much I mattered to Him.

            I was a speck in time and place, compared to worlds without end and unlimited knowledge and power. But there was a real relationship between me and this supreme Being I call Father.

            He provides, He listens, He comforts. Whenever I need Him He’s there.


            Because of my belief in Christ, its not that I can see Him, but I can see everything because of Him.


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The Happiest of Men

‘It is one of the strangest ironies of this life that those who work the hardest, subject themselves to the strictest discipline, who give up certain pleasurable things in order to achieve a goals are the happiest of men.’ –Brutus Hamilton, US Olympic Track and Field Coach.
I love this quote. It changed my mission, and my life. in a very honest sense, if we live by this creed, by giving us certain pleasurable things to obtain a goal, we are focus, we are pursuing something of value, and we avoid distraction. Happiness is not in achieving a goal, it is becoming someone worthy of that goal.


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There are people you love, and people you don’t yet know.

            A missionary shared this in a district meeting early on in my mission, and it changed my mission and afterward, my life. Even since being home this has come into circumstance over and over again as I look at the teams and groups I am a part of at school, work, everything.
            Specifically though I want to take a look at this in terms of missionaries themselves. I think it is almost natural with the Spirit to guide us that we feel a love begin to swell in us as we teach someone. We begin to understand their past, their hopes and desires, what they do now, how it affects their future, we love them and offer the best thing we have, the Gospel of Jesus Christ.

            But now missionaries. This includes companions, leaders, district and zone members, maybe even ward and branch members. I remember multiple times on my own mission where I knew I didn’t love my companion. This turned out to be one of the greatest blessings for me in my life, because I was able to practice this statement out: there are people you love, and people you don’t yet know.
            I think by definition there are some people we, gently put, don’t work as well with as others, am I right? Maybe you’re in a companionship that is kinda tense, a leader doesn’t understand your situation, or a district member or companionship wont work. Whatever the case is, this quote applies. I don’t remember how many times I realized that I knew more about my investigators than my companion. There were quite a few awkward moments as we would be teaching and didn’t plan that, or meeting with members and I would wonder where he got that habit or saying, and some thing should just drive me insane. I put up a block and our companionship started to crumble because for both of us, we refused to see beyond the person we saw every day.

            In one case, I found myself with a hardworking, diligent, obedient companion. It was early on in my mission, I was fired up, ready to roll, wanting to work, and so we had that working for us. We disagreed on a couple small things, nothing crazy, but it exploded on when we wanted to go running, we had a little flexibility as to working out in the morning or after coming in for the night before bed. I found that I had been so stubborn on some things that we had begun to separate even beyond this one subject. It seems childish, and it was.

            This is how we fixed it, and how you can with any relationship:

We sat down and got to know each other. We talked about our pasts, our mistakes, and our aspirations. We discussed our hopes for the mission, our dreams and vision for who we wanted to be at the end, what we wanted to do when we got back. After that, things were great. We had gotten to a point where we understood each other enough to anticipate each others sentences, we studied harder, worked harder, we pushed each other how we knew the other would respond, because we understood each other.
            I grew to love this companion. The experience and countless others taught me so much beyond just how to teach investigators, tract, find, talk with members. It taught me to love. Simply the love you have to have, it Christ’s love, and the reason Christ can love you perfectly, and anyone perfectly is because he knows you perfectly. Every decision, every thought, hope, discouragement, he knows, and because of that he loves you and knows how to help you.
            With any companion, investigators, leader, member, begin here: with an understanding of who they are. Not only will that communicate your genuine love for them but it will also build a trust in you as a servant of God, because you are doing exactly what Christ does with us, we are able to turn to Him because he listens, because he helps, guides, teaches.
            May you listen, question, remember, understand, may you love.

There are people you love, and people you don’t yet know.